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Well the DAVIE situation goes from bad to worse. He is, in all honesty, a bit of a knob-end. I went away on Thursday to Southport, to be in the final of a pop quiz. The last I saw him was Wednesday. I text him when I was on the way there, thinking I would get a text or a call straight back, but I didn’t. that was fine, because Thursday was a bit of a hard day for him (cant go into it), but I did get a text back a bit later, which was nice(ish), but nowhere near like his previous texts have been, just basically saying that he had a lot on his mind, and sorry he hadn’t text back sooner. I sent a text back saying that was fine, and I understood that things were hard for him at the moment, and I would text him the following day.

Well as it turned out, the quiz started at 9:30, and as I knew my phone would have to be turned off throughout the quiz, I left it in my hotel room. The quiz ended up going on until 5:30. then we went for a walk up Southport sea front, so I didn’t get back to my room until about 6:45. I had a missed call from him and a text saying he was sorry he hadn’t text me more, but he had missed me lots. So I text him back saying that I missed him too and couldn’t wait to get back for “snuggles” (yes sometimes, believe it or not, Betchy can do soppy!)

Anyway, I thought as he had a lot on his mind etc, I wouldn’t keep badgering him, I would leave him to get his head together or whatever, and we went and did karaoke in the hotel bar, and had a fucking good night!!!! I did The Carpenters “Rainy Days And Mondays”, and surprised everyone (including myself), by doing a quite spectacular rendition of it! Then I got up to do “Stand By Me”, and halfway through, the CD cut out. Little bit embarrassing. Then a random Scotsman came up to me, and told me that I was the best singer in there that night (seriously, head was starting to really expand by this point), and would I sing “Fairytale Of New York” with him. I don’t know that one well enough to do on Karaoke, so I did “Don’t Go Breaking My Heart” with him instead, and the CD cut out again!!!! Very, very embarrassing!!! A couple of blokes came up to me after and asked me to do duets with them, but there was no way I was risking the CD cutting out for a third time, so I declined the offers. But we had a great night. Anyway, I am getting sidetracked.

We left at about 9:30 Saturday morning to come back to Weston, and at about 11 I text DAVIE, saying we were on our way back and should be home about 0ne o’clock. I had said to him on Wednesday that I would see him when I got back on Saturday. Anyway, I didn’t get a text back or a phone call, so I kind of thought to myself “Well if he really wanted to see me, wouldn’t he have rung me, or at least text me back to ask what time I was coming round?”. I refused to text him again because my logic was that he knew what time I was coming back, so he should have rung me. I had done my part by letting him know what time I was coming back, surely the ball was in his court after that?

By six o’clock I still hadn’t heard from him, so I went down the Off License with Joey Baby, and bought a litre of vodka, and decided that even if I did hear from him I wasn’t going to go round, I was going to get pissed up. By that time he had had 5 hours to get in touch, and I was starting to get cross. Do you know what time I eventually heard from him? 9:45!!!! He one-ringered my phone, so I phoned him back. No answer (what is the point?). a few minutes later he rang again. I ignored it. Then again. I ignored it. After the third time I decided to ring him back. Now I had had a few dozen vodka’s by this point, so the conversation might not be completely accurate, but it went a little something like this

DAVIE: Hello?

Me: alright?

DAVIE: yeah, what go on?

Me: nothing, just having a few drinks with Joey.

DAVIE: oh right.

Me: how did Thursday go?

DAVIE: it was shit.

Me: sorry I wasn’t there

DAVIE: well you aint my wife

ME: I know

DAVIE: you aint my wife

Me: do you think I have some kind of hearing problem?

DAVIE: no, what you being like that for?

Me: I’m not being like anything. I have to go because I haven’t got much credit left on my phone.

DAVIE: oh, like that is it?

Me: what?

DAVIE: well where has all your credit gone? You put ten pounds on it Wednesday, and you’ve only text me twice, so where’s it all gone?

Me: well I’ve been away haven’t I? I’ve spent a lot on ringing my sister and my mum…

DAVIE: well you always interrogate me about where my credit has gone

(quick side-note. I have never ONCE interrogated him about where his credit has gone. Not once)

Me: Look I’ve got to go, because its going to run out any minute

DAVIE: right, fine, well I cant see you tomorrow

Me: well I’m going to my Mum’s for dinner tomorrow anyway

DAVIE: yeah, well I’m seeing my mates innit?

Me: well me and Joey are going to my Mums for dinner, like I just said.

DAVIE: right.

Me: just ring me if you want to see me ok?

DAVIE: ok. See ya!

So that pissed me off at first, but then I thought maybe I had been a little out of order. I mean, I had told him I would see him Saturday. He may have just assumed I would come round Saturday night anyway, or at least have phoned him to say what time I would be round. But I got arsey in that lovely way only I can, and took the aloof a step too far by just not bothering at all. However, he could have rang earlier than 9:45. I think he may have been sulking ever so slightly.

So me and Joey went to the lovely Cliffmeister Generals for dinner on Sunday, and all of a sudden I just really wanted to see him. You know occasionally that just happens? And I did start to wish I had just gone round on Saturday night instead of being all moody. So I sent him this text:

“Hi babe, going to be finishing dinner about 6, but have to take my washing home. If you want I could come round later coz want to see you. Let me know x”

which I think was nice without being too clingy and over the top. Well this is what I got back

“sorry but busy I have got my friend coming round so I cant maybe tomorrow text me back luv dave xx”

I didn’t text back for about another 6 hours, because I turned my phone off. When I turned it back on, I did 1471 and he had tried to ring, so I text this

“Hi babe, sorry I missed your call, hope you are ok. I will come and see you either tomorrow or Tuesday night. Sleep well, nighty nite and sweet dreams.”

Again, nice I thought. He then one-ringed me again, but I didn’t have enough credit to call back, because I had also been texting Mallen (don’t even ask!). so I text this

“Babe, only got 20p credit so cant phone you back. Sorry sweetie. Will call you from work tomorrow baby ok? Miss you, big hug and kiss x”

still exceptionally nice considering the way he had been with me, but I have to remember he is very insecure and I’m not, so trying not to be angry. Anyway, I rang him from work yesterday and asked him if he wanted me to go round last night, and he honestly couldn’t have been less enthusiastic had he been wearing a sign that said “I am really unenthusiastic”. He did say he didn’t feel well, and he is a moody arse most of the time anyway, but I am getting sick to death of pandering to his moods. I said I will go round tonight, and I will but mainly because I have left a load of DVD’s (some of which aren’t mine) round there. When I get there he has got 10 minutes. If he is nice to me in those first 10 minutes I will stay. If not, I am going to get the DVD’s and go. That’s it. End of. I cant be doing with it anymore. I like him soooooo much, but its just not worth the hassle.

So what do you guys think? One more chance tonight? I think he may be punishing me for my lack of contact over the weekend, but I don’t want to be too in his face, because that’s the mistake I usually make. However, I have been aloof to the extreme, and now things have gone the other way. I cant seem to strike a happy medium. Perhaps when he told me he was falling in with me I should have lied and said it back.

Anyway, as I said before

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