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Clarity's Questions


11:00 a.m.-2005-04-26

i feel guilty for the questions that one of my fave buddies, Clarity, took the time and effort to think about, so rather than tell more stories, today i am going to answer as many of questions as i can. also, i am trying hard to catch up with all of you......but i have about 60 buddies and 2 weeks worth of catching up to do....its quite a lot!!!

ok here goes

1. At the beginning of a relationship do you trust your new partner unless there is something specific to make you do otherwise, or do you withold your trust until he or she has earned it?

i am quite a trusting person.....maybe to a fault. maybe thats why i constantly get hurt by guys. but i do believe that you cant judge each new relationship on the previous one. how the hell will you find happiness that way? if you judge every guy on all the guys that you have broken up with, surely that means you are expecting to break up with him too? yeah, i trust them until they screw me over. then i punish them for 100 years!

2. when was the last time you had sex so spontaneously, you couldnt have predicted it 15 minutes before?

i guess the last time i had sex, when i had it with Wizz. although i knew he was coming round i wasnt planning on shagging him. usually though sex isnt that spontaneous for me......i know when i will get it and when i wont!!!

3. When you get married what kind of wedding do you want? is it important to have a particular kind of wedding? if so, under what circumstances would you be willing to give up that type of ceremony, or even elope?

well firstly, i dont think i will ever get married. not because i dont want to, just because its something that every little girl dreams of, and dreams just dont come true for me. but if i ever did, then i wouldnt really care where it was, Church, registry office, hotel, whatever, just as long as all my friends and family were there, and there was a big piss up afterwards. i wouldnt ever consider eloping, because my Mum hasnt got any other children (my sisters have a different Mum to me), so it would break her heart if i did that. and also, my friends and family are such a big part of my life. even if i did find my one true love, i cant ever imagine only wanting to be with him and not spending time with my friends and family. i would need to have them there.

4. Are you more attracted to people whose personalities are similar to yours or very different? What differences attract you and why?

well, i really dont have a particular kind of bloke i go for. you can pop over and ask My Girl Lisa about all the different men i have gone after. they are all completely different. i must admit though, i do like a guy who is outgoing, popular and funny. Wizz would be the exception to that rule, because he was a hermit, had no friends, and was quiet. and not really that funny. so i guess that i do go for guys who are quite similar to me, because i am outgoing, and apparently "Funny" (dont get me started on that one again!!!)

5. what is something you intended to do today...but didnt? why?

i intended to reply to diaryland notes and read a load of diaries, but have been extremely busy at work and also wanted to answer Clarity's questions because i love her and she took the time to leave them for me!!!

6. What is something your parents used to say to you as a child that you promised yourself you would never say, but now catch yourself saying it all the time?

easy peasy!! when there is a cover version of a song i now say "Its not as good as the original". there was a time when i had never heard the originals......it used to drive me mad when my Mum said that, i used to think she was so old fashioned!

7. Who is the most famous person you have ever met? what famous person would you like to meet?

Well, i do know Derek, who plays Charlie Slater on Eastenders. i have met Gary Lucy, and he kissed me, i've met Bindya Solanki who was Nita on Eastenders (thats not very famous though). ummmmm....i've slept with Phil Moorem who is Gary Moore (From Thin Lizzy) nephew. oh, Claire from Steps, i've met her.....no-one really that good though. no-one really famous. i'd love to meet Ricki Lake.....Michael Jackson.....Tom Hanks......Pink...Jamie Lee Curtis.....Bruce Willis....the cast of Friends.....i wont go on anymore!!!!

8. What were your fave toys growing up? do you still have those toys?

i know all my old toys are in my Mums attic!!!! but i havent seen them for years! i loved my Barbies, Care Bears (i have loads of Care Bears in my flat too), those storybook tapes when you turn the page when it says "ding!!", Sweet Secrets, Poochie, Pound Puppies, Fairytales, my Skippit, the game Bed Bugs (where the bed used to vibrate and you had to get the bugs using tweezers), Mr Pop.....God i was a spoilt brat by the sounds of it!!!!

ok, thats all your questions answered Clarity!!! hope you like the answers!!!

everyone else, i'm trying to get back to you all.....promise!!!!!

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